Friday, May 15, 2015

Sexual violence and clothing

Sexual violence and clothing. The title could've been Does clothing have any influence for sexual violence or is clothing a reason for sexual violence?

What do we understand by sexual violence? Sexual violence is any sexual act or attempt to obtain a sexual act by violence or coercion , unwanted sexual
comments or advances, acts to traffic a person or acts directed against a person's sexuality , regardless of the
relationship to the victim - this is what the Wikipedia says. Let's get back to our main point. Sexual violence has been a traumatic and horrific experience for the girls or women. This way the notorious people cause mental tortures. It strongly harms and can leave psychological scars for them which is hard to overcome. I want to stat that girls or women are not responsible at all for this teasing. It is the evil deed by the lecherous males. If anyone has to be blamed,  then the males are to be blamed.

As we all know,  today's world is very dangerous place. The proportion of bad people is higher than the good people,  so there are bad people around us. What do we do to be secure? We abide by some restrictions and hope that nothing bad happens to us. For example, your computer may get affected by virus and for this problem you are using an anti-virus,  here the anti-virus is a shield or slope. As it was mentioned previously, women have no fault for such activities, but they can still prevent it, they can take steps which can decrease the possibility of occurring such hateful thing. Clothing doesn't cause sexual violence but it definitely has an impact for such thing. Clothing can be a shield as the anti-virus for computer. The eye catching dresses often invite the evil people to commit this. Women who wear dresses which expose their body more have the more possibility of getting harassed. An example can describe this nicely,  let's assume two girls are walking on a street and there are some lecherous males. One of the two girls is wearing a dress which exposes her body more than the girl who puts on a dress which covers her body. Now the question is,  which girl has the most probability of getting teased? About one hundred persons were asked this question and eighty of them answered that the girl who puts on a dress that exposes her body has the highest probability of facing harassment by the lecherous males from the street. One may come up with a question that what about the girls who cover their body and still experiencing this? It is indeed a very good question. There are some kind of stalkers, such one,  one kind of stalkers will do it regardless the dress of the victims. And another type of stalker is not much aggressive as the stalkers who commit this regardless of victim's clothing. This kind of stalkers only commit when they find sexual appealing from the opposite gender. Another example for this is, One,  when a tiger is hungry, it kills whatever it finds, even human being. Two, when the tiger is not hungry, but an injured deer passes by, it just bites its neck and keeps it for the dinner. So, if a woman is well dressed, which is not sexually appealed has least chance of getting harassed by a man who has no intensity of teasing her until he found her appealing and breaks the bars inside his mind. Women without gentle dresses are kinda injured deer which makes tiger attack immediately it sees it. Now if you are not going to accept this fact, you are going to tag me as a subordinator of women, I am disrespecting women and comparing her to food or whatever. You should also understand the fact that how I respected women by comparing her to human being and deer, where I compared men with tiger, which is predator. Now you can say that I said men are strong and women are week, in fact its true, men are stronger than women and men do more violence than  women, but women should get conscious about this fact and prevent men from doing these kinda violence.

Some may say that it degrades women or it makes women subordinate to men,  which isn't true. It is a cautiousness. Women have the freedom to wear dresses by their wishes but they have to keep in mind that what can cause her dress. Let's assume,  a territory called X is filled up with all the criminals and it is in beside your home territory. So obviously you will ignore the place,  or skip the area to go somewhere, because you know bad things may happen there,  but you do have the freedom to go anywhere in your country,  you're a citizen and you have the right but still you will avoid the place. May I ask, what is is the reason? In fear that you can get into trouble and you don't want it to happen. Same way,  you know you have the freedom to wear clothes but you also know often clothes invites evil people committing such hateful activities.

It is also observed that countries in which women wear dresses which expose their body have the higher rate of sexual harassment than the countries where women cover themselves. So,  if women wear decent dresses,  then there definitely will be a downfall of sexual violence.

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